My Book
This is the story of a journalist who backpacks solo through Africa. Yes, it’s my take on exploring a continent that’s so different from my home. But it’s also about what it’s like to travel alone as a woman, why it’s worth dropping everything to follow a dream and how I grew along the way.
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Tentative title: Please Send Pants
When Lexi Grant quits her job to travel in Africa, she doesn’t think twice about going solo. At twenty-seven, she craves the freedom and the challenge – and she knows it’s unlikely that her career-minded or family-focused friends would want to gallivant around a continent full of squat toilets and bush taxis, anyhow.
But she quickly realizes that traveling alone isn’t as easy as she expected. Independent to a fault, she ventures to a deserted zoo in Burkina Faso, to the sandstorm-plagued desert of the infamous Timbuktu, and to the mountains of Cameroon, where she grieves with a polygamous family, all the while trying to avoid eating their phallic cassava sticks. But when Lexi finds herself alone in a dangerous Malagasy bus station after midnight, she’s finally forced to admit she’s vulnerable. Can she really complete this trip on her own? And how might learning to lean on others change her life back home?
Full of both adventure and introspection, this story is satisfyingly real, freeing readers from the fairy-tale love that drives most modern-day travel memoirs; one popular blogger called it the anti-Eat, Pray, Love. If you’ve ever dreamed about taking a leap in life, Please Send Pants will inspire you to make it happen.





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I want you to know how much I love what you are doing with your life. Stay inspired, it is people like you that keep me seeking my next adventure. Better happy than rich.
Your memoir sounds fascinating, and your blog is great. I traveled solo many years ago, now, the novel I wrote that was inspired by my trip, CURRENCY, is finally coming out this spring after multitudes of revisions and dozens of rejections. I have a feeling you won’t need to wait that long, but stick to it!
I definitely want to read your book when it comes out, Alexis!
Sounds amazing… can’t wait to read it!
Can’t wait to read it! Congrats on the representation. You are so close!
I can’t wait to read your book! I spent 7 months in Africa in 2010 and it was a truly remarkable experience.
Cool…great to find you! Check out my blog if you have time…I also have a book coming out called Lessons from the Monk I Married spring 2012 by Seal Press/Perseus Books…yes, and I don’t watch TV either!!!!! ^_^!
I am turning 27 this spring and I am finding myself having the same urges of leaving my corporate job and traveling and getting to know myself better. I can’t wait to read your book
Thanks, Maria! These types of comments always make my day, especially from folks who are new to the blog.
I can’t wait to read your book! I’m a mother of two and a fellow writer. I often wonder if my traveling days are behind me now, but feel inspired by brave adventure seekers like you!
Why not self-publish? If your book is eventually accepted by a publisher, do you really want to wait another18-24 months to see it reach your readers? Check out Joe Konrath’s blog on self-publishing.
Don’t think the thought hasn’t crossed my mind, Dan! Mostly because I love entrepreneurial ventures. But I think traditional publishing offers more credibility, so I’m aiming for that, first.
Hi Alexis,
I’m looking forward to reading your book by a fellow traveller. I’m Canadian and I moved to Europe to try new things. It really does teach you a lot being in a different place. I’m sure Africa is an even more enlightening destination.
Congratulations!
Alexis, I can’t wait to read your memoir. You are such an inspiration. I believe this is something I would have done had I thought of it when I was younger – pre-husband, pre-children. Instead, I’ll SOON get to read how you did it. Hope the wait isn’t too long for you!!!
I’m pulling for you.
Hi Alexis, your memoir sounds like a good read I would like to get my hands on. Please let me know when it is out and where I can access it.
Travelling solo to far destinations such as Africa takes a lot of heart and courage. I think I would be more comfortable doing this as a group. However, one on one experiences are great. All the best with your memoir. Look forward to a good read
You’re awesome! Good luck with your book and thank you for not letting the fear of others’ perceptions about the world stop you!
Excellent posts and a very promising book! Best wishes with the publication! Keep us updated. Looking forward to reading the book!
Looking forward to reading your book, Alexis! I spent some time in Ethiopia, such a magnificent country and such beautiful people. I’d love to explore the rest of the continent. Perhaps I’ll be using your memoir as a guidebook!
Thanks, Robin! I’d love to get to Ethiopia at some point.
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